You often
see it, where parents force the aspirations onto their children when actually
the child isn’t interested, or has their own dream. It’s almost like playing
director fitting them for the part, yet the part don’t fit them. Born is the
travesty of sure backfire, leaving at times self-esteem problems, broken
hearts, and that gilded feeling of a letdown.
Same holds
true for children who have a brief encounter or two with spirit. Parents became
so adamant that their child is “psychic” or holds a special prowess enabling
them to communicate with the other side at will. Enter the forced regiment of
questions, poignant thought perseverance, perhaps a slight mind control with
the play on words, which then leaves a child thinking they really are equipped with
a 4D range of interpretation.
Everything
in life should be nurtured, guided, explained to, not forced, pointed out or
pushed onto children. What may be the parent’s aspirations to live vicariously
through their children’s eyes, might not be what the child really wants. With anything
in life whatsoever, one either has ability, or they don’t. Sure certain aspects
can be taught, but not what is a living asset bestowed upon another. Everyone
has a talent in life, its finding that niche and living that dream. If one
loves what they do in life, the life of what they do is easy. Nothing should be
a forced venue, it should be natural.
I have often
said it and we see it every day, too many people trying to walk among the dead,
when they don’t even know how to walk among the living! They put the onus on
their children, or themselves for that matter, to be what they see in another,
yet they can’t live the life they have been given them. Too much of wanting to
be something or someone, which they aren’t and over time it completely ruins
living life fully to gain the proper perspective in life. Oh I am not saying
don’t go out and try things in life to see, if you fit in, or not in what you
seek, however, there comes a time where, if it isn’t natural like breathing
itself, there are limitations for a reason. Do what is right and comfortable
within your capacity of living, over extending a child’s, or yourself as the
parent, can lead to many complications throughout your life. Nothing is given
you throughout your day that you can’t handle, it’s what is given by yourself,
or the ones you love with expectations that might not be reached, which is the
burden in your day.
Live life
and let life live, breathe and exhale, don’t place virtue or definitive motives
on life and life will grant you solace.
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